Every once in a while we experience astrological transits that have the power to challenge us to improve our lives.
It’s as if we need to be shaken up or almost feel threatened in order to move forward. It’s easy to “give up” in this life and let things get worse while we complain.
We keep things and situations in our life simply because it’s too much work to do about it and that mostly happens with friends.
During the Moon opposite Venus occurring on July 11, 2022, we will sense this challenge taking place and we must respond to it.
The status quo no longer works for us; we can’t just let people trample on us… and that’s something we might notice happening, especially during the Moon opposite Venus.
This allows us to stand up for ourselves and do something we might never have thought we would have the courage to do: letting go of friends who bring nothing but poison into our lives. And it happens. What we do about it makes the difference.
Stagnation and acceptance bring only sorrow. It’s time to let go
First we need to identify who is toxic in our lives as not everyone reaches this level. We’re not here to turn off people who just annoy us; there are redeeming qualities worth working with.
But there are people in our lives who bring us nothing but pain and fear, and what’s the point of encouraging that kind of behavior? There is nothing. It’s time to clean the house sign.
And some of you know exactly what we are talking about here – and by whom.
The 3 Zodiac Signs Unleashing Toxic Friends on Monday, July 11th, 2022 during the Moon opposite Venus:
(March 21 – April 19)
When you start a friendship, you go all the way. You’re not the casual acquaintance type; you prefer your friendships to be special and private. You like to know that you and your boyfriend have your own little language and that you can confide in him all your secrets, rich and sometimes dark.
What you cannot tolerate is being lied to. While no one can stomach being lied to, you have kept this friend in particular at a high level, and when you find out that this person has lied to you, label them “toxic.”
You are not the one who forgives easily; However, it might be best to let this Moon opposite Venus energy give you what you need at this time: the freedom to see life outside of that person, even if it causes you pain. That liar was never good for you, and now you know it. Another lesson in love learned the hard way. Let them go if they don’t bring you joy.
(May 21 – June 20)
You are a very strong willed person and you are known to annoy others, especially friends. But you are also someone who has self-respect. Though your style isn’t always “gentle,” you’re a loyal and generous friend, and those who take the time to get to know you tend to think you’re the greatest.
By preserving the power your friends have associated you with, you have become keen on who is right and wrong for you. You have had friends in your life who are Keepers; they last forever, and then there are those that just can’t grow.
While you may be the intolerant one here, you may be on to something. There is no reason for you to tolerate what hurts you or tries to undermine you and that is exactly what you can see now thanks to the Moon opposite Venus. This transit is your wake-up call; It’s time to throw the trash out of your life, Gemini.
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(October 23 – November 21)
It’s a struggle between loving yourself and letting yourself become your doormat. After this transit kicks in, you will definitely choose to love yourself. It’s funny how we can do this to ourselves, letting friends take advantage of us to the point where we actually know each other as doormats. And you, Scorpio, have known for a long time that this could happen in your life and yet you have never done anything about it.
With the Moon opposite Venus, you will find that the light is being shown to you right now; someone in your life has crossed the line. They no longer see this as something that will pass. In fact, this transit wakes you up so you can see that this person is actually a toxic user.
Suddenly you can’t imagine a future where that person can do what they’re used to. You’re not a doormat, and you know the only way to save yourself more misery is to show them the door. Your loss, Scorpio. your profit.
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